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Fantasizing is our very own thing — It is free, uncensored and private. But, what do these fantasies actually mean? When we see ourselves dominating her or when we fantasize voyeurism, what does it actually spell about our personality? Erotic daydreaming can reveal a great deal about your hidden desires, passions and your mental health. However, fantasies can have an individual interpretation, much like dreams. Following are some common sex fantasies and what they may ify. Every woman wants men to desire her.
But taken to a fantasy level, she may want men to lie at her feet and die for one sexual encounter with her. In this way, women relieve themselves of the responsibility of instigating a sexual encounter, something that they are not supposed to do themselves as per social norms. Besides this, believing that everyone desires you crazily can also reflect a lack of it in the real life or a fear of its lack. Getting spanked associates pain with pleasure, something we have been doing since ancient times. This could reflect on the need of aggression in your man. You want him to be forceful.
In fact, there are female animals that only ovulate when their male partners bite them. It also reflects on the feeling of guilt. Indulging in something that you should not is often seen wrongful in women. Spanking, in a way, punishes them for this desire. Fantasizing about stripping to your guy or to an audience that adores your body always has a two-fold impact. The more they desire you, the more adorable you feel. It could mean that the woman fantasizing about stripping could be a narcissist, as she wants to be looked at and adored, or a flaunter who wants her body to be appreciated.
This way or that, getting applauded on your nakedness can give you a sense of confidence and power and brush aside any fears. Fantasizing about having sex with people who are younger than you or are older than you is about telling yourselves that you are still good enough to arouse them. This is about an ego-boost. When imagining with a younger one, it is a boost because it spells that you have still got the charm to attract someone who is younger. If he chooses you, you must have something. If you fantasize about having sex in a public place, it could mean that you are a rebel as it is illegal to have sex in a public domain.
Also, it could suggest that you want people to acknowledge your superior sexual skills or could spell pleasure through exhibitionism or voyeurism for women. Many people, particularly men, fantasize about having sex with a virgin. This serves them two purposes, both boosts to their ego. First, they are the ones who have the know-how of sex.
They get to teach the other one, irrespective of them being right or wrong. However, this could also mean that they have fears of being sexually inadequate. Second, the idea of corrupting innocence is quite appealing to them.
If something is unattainable, it becomes all the more attractive.
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Bondage fantasies are about power dynamics. People who fantasize about bondage are either at the receiving end or the controlling end.
If you fantasize about controlling your partner, you gain power and this can often lead you to be self-driven. However, if you are the one who is at the receiving end, you are at the mercy of someone else and do not carry the responsibility of the act. Traditionally, domination is a male fantasy and so, usually, men fantasize about being the controlling ones as it boosts their egos. Women, on the other hand, can fantasize about both; if they are the controllers, it reflects a desire to have more control in real life, which they may not have; if they are at the receiving end, it reflects a desire of being made a part of the act, something that absolves them of the social stigma of instigating sex and absolves them of its guilt.
However, there are psychologists who say that both men and women fantasize about submission more than domination. Part of the reason could be that the ones who make it to a psychologist are those who are professionals and high achievers.
Now, people who have had a big share of success in their lives, who live in a rut of meetings and managing teams, who have had achieved high, wish to lose control for a little while in their lives. This might also be the need to balance out the energies of domination and surrender in their lives. A weekly guide to the biggest developments in health, medicine and wellbeing delivered to your inbox. Thank you for subscribing! Your subscription is confirmed for news related to biggest developments in health, medicine and wellbeing. Back to Top. Select a City Close.
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Count: We have sent you a verification. To verify, just follow the link in the message. Now Reading: What does your sex fantasy reveal about you? Share fbshare twshare pinshare Comments 0. What does your sex fantasy reveal about you? This fantasy is common in women who are particularly coy or undemanding in waking life. Also, women are usually not expected to be the ones who take sexual charge, but men. So, desiring about controlling men could reflect a desire to own a total sense of control. Second, because you are more sexually driven and hence, more sexually powerful, you have a power fantasy.
Thirdly, you want him to see how good you look while having sex, something he may not be able to see when he is himself involved in the act. It is like real time porn, only better because it is happening right in front of you and is also more realistic.